Of course PHP is better the Asp.net...

 
I am also don't code on ASP.net. I prefer PHP. And i am not only just look at the most popular websites Facebook, Wikipedia or millions of Wordpress and Joomla websites they are written on PHP.

ASP and PHP are both programming languages that are commonly used to create websites.
Both ASP and PHP are languages used to build Dynamic Web sites that can interact with Databases and exchange information.

Cost
To run ASP programs one needs IIS installed on a Windows platform server, which is not free. PHP programs run on Linux, which is free.

Speed
If we compare the speed of ASP and PHP then PHP has an upper hand. PHP code runs faster than ASP. ASP is built on COM based architecture, which is an overhead for the server whereas PHP code runs in its own memory space.

Platform
PHP programs can run on various platforms like Linux, Unix, Windows and Solaris whereas ASP is mainly associated with Windows platforms. However, ASP can run on a Linux platform with ASP-Apache installed on the server.

I do not get how to use a php framework.

Hello Friend. I've been learning PHP now for some weeks on a hobby level and I do think it's alot of fun! But, I hear, everywhere people say "Dont reinvent the wheel" and how good frameworks are, but there is some stuff stopping me.

1. Once I download a framework, I have NO IDEA what the hell to do next. When I code my own files it's just... create a .php file and start typing.
2. I have a problem with not controlling and writing everything myself, because that is one of the things I like most about coding, to create. (but I said the same thing about CSS Frameworks and now Im rockin' Foundation without any regrets.

And why I just do not keep continue to do my own buisness is becasuse, I hear all this talk about how secure frameworks are, and Im super scared of writing a php website and messing something up